Is it a good thing that someone called my hair style "artistic"?

That's how someone described it the other night. I've recently decided it's time to grow up and limit my use of my GHD hair straighteners. After all, I've been using them almost every day since I was 18 (that's nearly 12 years, argh) and feel I'm ready to love the hair God gave me, even if it has a mind of its own. So I've not been straightening my hair for nearly a week now and am learning to love it!

Here's a photo of me with unstraightened hair. I'm on a night out with Jo, who I took out for dinner to celebrate her 30th birthday.

Me with Jo - and the hair that's been allowed to express itself

So you see, not straightening my hair means it's been allowed to take over a little bit and has decided that random kinks are the way to go. On the way home that night, I got chatting to a friendly French fella in the queue for the night bus (yes, it was a night bus kinda night) who, without any prompting, told me he thought my hair was artistic. Is that a good thing? I guess it means it's individual - much more individual than ironing one's hair to within a inch of it's life I suppose - and makes me look like I'm comfortable with who I am, and what I look like. Sort of.

Then again, it could mean it looks carefree and unkempt, which it does a bit really.

Just a normal Tuesday outfit...

...but I thought I'd upload it because a few people said it looked nice! I'm standing in Westfield, London aka. my second home, having just watched the BBC Symphony Orchestra play some beautiful pieces from the Proms 2011. The outfit features my Dorothy Perkins wide-legged jeans, white New Look tie-front top, gold ballet pumps, vintage-imspired Urban Outfitters watch and tote "Kate borrowed my t-shirt" bag that came free with my last ASOS order(!).

Here are a few things I like about it:

1. The wide-legged jeans are a nice dark wash so as well as being smart(ish), they are quite slimming
2. The white tie-front top gives an air of relaxed nonchalance
3. This outfit is very comfortable indeed
4. The big tote bag has enough room for all my essentials, plus it relaxes the outfit
5. These jeans are a SIZE 8, down from my usual 10-12. I know you can't tell just by looking at them, but it makes me feel better.

And there you have it. My Tuesday afternoon outfit.

I finally own a lips ring - and it's by Lulu Guinness

I've wanted a lips ring for ages, since I saw the famous ring collection from Solange Azagury-Partridge on Bond Street. Of course, those rings cost hundreds so as lovely as they are, I was never going to buy one.

Then one day I stumbled across the Lulu Guinness lip rings on the website but, at £50, I decided it was a bit too pricey and resisted temptation. So can you imagine my glee when I was pottering around House of Fraser and saw the silver version had gone down to £27.50? I tried it on and snapped it up sharpish. especially when the sales lady told me it was the last one. As soon as I left the shop I slipped it on my finger. Here it is on said finger (with a backdrop of Wimbledon on the telly!):

My hand garnished with my new Lulu Guinness lips ring

It is more bling than my usual style but I still love it. In fact, it makes such a statement I'll never need to buy another ring again (ahem).

I think I may have found my perfect lipstick!

It's from a range of lipsticks by Poppy King, an Australian make-up artist, under the Boots brand No. 7.

The range features great eye-catching shades such as a bright red lipstick called History, but, because I'm new to wearing lipstick, I went for the more natural Intrigue. It is a great colour for the daytime and can be layered up for more impact at night. And because I loved it I decided to buy the matching lipgloss as well. The total came to around £25 and the Boots sales lady gave me a make-up bag full of No.7 samples and a wrist watch for free (the wrist watch is a bit random I know, but anyway). That's a bargain in my book!

Anyway, here is what the lipstick and lip gloss look like:

 Nice packaging eh?! And here is a close-up of the lipstick in Intrigue:

And here is a picture of me wearing it:

Ok, it's doesn't make a dramatic impact or anything but sometimes you just want to slick something on to make you feel a better and for me, this does the job perfectly. I've been wearing it for about 4 hours now and in that time I've had a cup of tea, a bowl of Fruit & Fibre (I know it's not proper lunch fare but I just really fancied it!) and eaten a peach and it's stayed on! Also, I tend to have really dry lips - a big reason why I've never really worn lipstick before - and it seems to be moisturising them rather well. What's more, I don't have that dreaded feathering effect lipstick-on-dry-lips can cause.

In short, I'm loving this new lipstick and looking forward to slicking it on more often. In the evening I'll add the gloss to add a bit more impact. And next time I'm in Boots I may even try out a couple more shades in the range.

Well done Poppy King, I'm impressed!

How to clear out your wardrobe

The other day I decided to make room for my new spring/summer purchases by clearing out my wardrobe.

I tried my best to stick to the rule 'if you haven't worn it for a year, get rid' and generally I didn't do too badly. This is what my wardrobe looks like now:

My wardrobe as of June 2011

Yes it looks quite full, but believe it or not, it's a lot less full than it was. I gave three sacks worth of clothes to charity and now I can actually open the drawers which is surprisingly satisfying.

The white package at the top is my wedding dress and veil which I like to touch in a nostalgic manner every now and again. Below that is a shelf of all my bags including going-out bags, day bags and totes. Then below that is the hanger-y part of my wardrobe with the going-out tops, dresses, shirts, blouses and cardigans - as well as my new long flared jeans which I don't want to crease on the right - then everything else is in the four drawers. Not bad eh?

I won't mention the separate tall boy by the bed which has four drawers of underwear, socks, swimwear, scarves and other accessories. And the huge pile of shoes under the window. And the wooden chest of more shoes. And the cupboard-under-the-stairs with more shoes and coats in it.

Do you like my new shoes?

They're black faux-suede wedges from the Office concession in Topshop. I bought them a few days ago to go with a pair of long and floaty black crepe trousers from River Island.

My new black wedges from Office (not sure why one looks navy in this pic!)

They are fairly high but they feel so comfortable because they sit on a platform which gives them height without putting pressure on the front of the foot. I do feel a bit like I'm walking on stilts but that's all part of the appeal (especially when you've only got little legs like me).

I'll take a photo of me wearing them soon as.

Can I wear a jumpsuit to a wedding?

Good question, and one I recently needed to ask myself. So this is what I'm thinking.

Right. There are three weddings coming up this summer and it's time to begin the annual wedding sartorial treasure hunt. In order to make a desicion I considered the styles of wedding this new outfit was to appear at:



Me wearing the Monsoon jumpsuit in question



Wedding number 1 - Simon and Von. Simon is one of Alex's friends and their wedding reception is in a country pub

Wedding number 2 - Jasmine and ???. Can't remember his name but he's from Bangladesh so I'd probably only spell it wrong anyway. That means it's an ASIAN WEDDING which I'm very excited about

Wedding number 3 - Tonino and Marcia. Tonino is my cousin and IT'S GOING TO BE IN THE COUNTRY IN ITALY which I am also extremely excited about

I can therefore picture myself floating around all three in a beautiful maxi dress that is nice and flowy at the bottom and fairly fitted at the top in order for it to look less beach-y. So I began my search in Monsoon, home of ethnic and boho inspired wedding guest attire. And do you know what I came out with?

A jumpsuit.

Despite having said in the past that I didn't think jumpsuits were really me, I saw it hanging on the rail, made a beeline for it and found myself taking it to the shop till. I tried it on as soon as I got home and love it for these reasons:

- The fabric is a beautiful drapey jersey which is uber flattering on the curves
- The print is subtle, pretty and sophisticated to offset the edgy jumpsuit style
- It comes with a belt which cinches one's waist in beautifully
- It'll stand out from the crowd.

Now the problems with the jumpsuit are:

- It's £65 which is quite steep really
- I probably won't wear it again after the aforementioned weddings
- The weddings I'm going to aren't 'fashiony' enough for it
- There's going to be someone there who won't approve because it's not 'traditional' wedding attire

To go back to the original question 'can I wear a jumpsuit to a wedding', I reckon that yes you can, but only if it's a city wedding with young, fashion-savvy people where it'll be appreciated. Otherwise you risk various older relations making jokes about pyjamas etc.

What have I decided? The jumpsuit is (relunctantly) going back to the shop, probably to be biught by a trendy girl who's off to a cool London wedding and I'm hoping a nice floaty jersey dress will come into my life soon.